by Devon Ellington
The holidays are upon us, which means no time and dozens of commitments. It’s imperative for both your time and your sanity to put aside an afternoon or evening, scroll through your closet, and figure out some outfits for holiday events.
Pull out some mix-and-match pieces and put them to one side. Figure out how to dress these items up and down. Pull some of the dressy shoes. Line up the dressier purses on your bureau, and take a quick inventory of your jewelry. Wash or dry clean anything that needs it. Mend anything that needs it. Keep it all together on one side of your closet, and you’ll cut your dress time and your stress time by about 85%.
Sweaters pack easily and shake out well. If you have to work all day, but have an event at night, wear your regular work blouse during the day with a black or navy blue skirt or pair of trousers. Before you leave work, switch to a cashmere, silk blend, or metallic sweater, add a bit of shimmer to your eye make up and lip gloss, and you’re ready to step into any party.
In general, if you stick to a plain, dark-colored skirt or pair of trousers, you can have a bit more fun with the top — something in brighter colors, embellished, or metallic. If you’re going to wear something patterned, make sure the pattern doesn’t overwhelm you. Every other wardrobe pro insists on having a white shirt in the wardrobe — simple cotton for the warmer half of the year, something silky and slinky for the second. I think that’s a good idea, but I don’t personally wear white, so I have very little white in my wardrobe.
The little black dress is a go-to for any time of year. I am at a point where I’m looking for a replacement for my little black dress — I’ve worn it out! Usually, though, I have my little black dress and my little blue dress — a dark blue sheath that can dress up or down depending on the occasion. Black can wash you out if you’re not careful — if you wear black, you may have to boost the cheek color and lip color a bit. And, of course, the correct undergarments are important so that the lines of the dress flatter YOUR lines. (You can go back to my article a few months ago, “Let’s Talk Lingerie” for more on undergarments).
Something to think about as you choose your holiday wear is flammability. It’s harder to find sparkly holiday wear in natural fabrics. And many people use candles more during the holidays. Make sure you know the fiber content of anything you wear and how it reacts to flame. A tunic with wide, draping sleeves may look gorgeous, but if you’re going to reach across a buffet table with candles, you’re setting yourself up for a serious accident. If you’re going to wear something with flow and drape, whether it’s a sleeve or a scarf or a very full skirt, be aware of flame and keep your distance. Some of these fabrics go up like accelerant.
Sparkly jewelry adds a holiday lift. Plenty of manufacturers put out holiday-themed jewelry that’s also pretty. A silver or gold pin with a little sparkle can dress up a usually demure sweater or top. Just make sure that the pin isn’t too heavy for the garment. You don’t want to tear it or leave a large hole from the sharp point of the pin. I try to keep fabric scraps in different weights handy and test the pin before I put it on the garment. If you don’t do that, you can test it on material from one of the inside seam allowances — just remember that, unless the seam is pressed flat, the garment is half the weight.
Brighten up your make-up for the holidays. Add a more shimmery shadow, or, at the very least, a shimmery highlight. Lorac makes a fabulous “Gold” eyeshadow that I only wear during the holiday season, usually paired with their “Garnet” shadow. Many companies bring out a shimmery gloss in either a transparent, a neutral, or a very pale pink. You can layer that over your regular matte lipstick to add a bit of punch. Or you can pick up a shimmer gloss and keep it in your purse to just use it for parties. A “lipstick wardrobe” is an inexpensive way to change your look. Benefit has a great shimmer gloss in a shade called “Charge It!” And Kiehl’s “Tawny” can be worn alone or layered over other shades. All of these colors have worked with whatever my hair color of the moment is!
Speaking of hair color, this is a great time to touch up your color, add highlights, or even change it. Are you happy with the way your hair looks? Maybe it’s time for a cut and color. I’ve been doing my own color for about thirty years now — the only time I went to a pricy salon, they screwed it up. If you need to do both, get your cut first and wait about two or three days before the color, so the cut can settle. And then the color coverage is more thorough.
What about shoes? The temptation is to go for the highest heels possible. If you can change on the way and know you’re only going to be there for a little while, and can soak your feet when you get home, go for it. Otherwise, a pair of metallic flats are your best friend. Get a cushioned pair with a bit of arch support. That will serve you better, especially at a company party, than stilettos. If you’re going with boots, a block heel will serve you better than a stiletto heel, especially if you’re going to tramp through snow.
And, if you do have to go through bad weather, but you plan to wear cute shoes –especially a silk or a satin — wear an all-weather shoe or boot to get there and change ONCE YOU’RE INSIDE. There’s no reason to ruin a perfectly good pair of shoes in order to make an entrance that no one will really see anyway. Enter the foyer, step aside, switch shoes. Not a big deal.
You can dress up any coat by adding a pin. Since it’s a coat, you can get away with something larger and more elaborate than you can on a top. You don’t have to coordinate your hat, scarf, and gloves — each can be unique with individual meaning, as long as they go well together — in other words, try not to wear too many competing patterns at once.
Go forth and enjoy the holidays!
–Devon Ellington publishes under a half a dozen names in both fiction and non-fiction. She worked the wardrobe department on Broadway shows, and on film and television sets for over twenty years. Visit Ink in My Coffee to keep up with her.